About Tiffiny
Learn More about Tiffiny and her experience in Speaking & Coaching
Hi, I’m Tiffiny.
And I help high-achieving professionals increase their income, and impact, without burnout. If you’re successful on paper but secretly exhausted… you’re not alone.
You’re the dependable one. The one people count on. The fixer.
You lead meetings, hit deadlines, hold everything together, while quietly carrying pressure, anxiety, and that constant fear that if you slow down… everything will fall apart.
And deep down, you’re starting to wonder…Is this what success is supposed to feel like?
Because here’s what most people don’t talk about: You can be “doing everything right”… and still not feel free. I know, because that used to be me.
My story didn’t start with coaching
It started with a life that looked good on paper… and felt heavy on the inside.
A few years ago, I was in a well-paying, high-stress corporate career as a consultant that required constant travel. I was overwhelmed, emotionally drained, and disconnected from myself. I had gained weight, lost confidence, and slowly started slipping into a version of my life that didn’t even feel like mine.
And I remember hitting a point where I looked in the mirror and thought:
“No. This is not how my story ends.”
So I took control of the only thing I felt like I had power over in that season: my body.
Day by day, I started walking. Walking turned into running. Running turned into strength training.
The truth I didn’t want to admit…
But as much as I loved my fitness competitions and teaching, I still had a major problem. It was the part of my life that no one could see; the part I hid. It was the part of my life where I was powerless and miserable. It was my marriage. Even though everything looked good to the outside world, my marriage was falling apart, we were arguing more and more. We'd been together for almost ten years.
Truth is, I knew the first year that I'd made a mistake in getting married, but I took a vow, gave my word, and would do whatever it took to stay. You see, I was raised to believe that most marriages took a lot of work and that no matter what happened, it was important as a wife to give it your ALL.
I had spent years being the woman who made it work.
The woman who stayed.
The woman who sacrificed.
The woman who tolerated too much because she believed being “good” meant giving everything.
But there was a moment….one defining moment…where something in me woke up.
I realized:
I was not free.
And freedom isn’t just about money or a title.
It’s about being able to breathe in your own life.
It’s about not walking on eggshells.
It’s about not shrinking to keep everyone else comfortable.
And I remember thinking:
“My peace can’t be the price I pay for loyalty.”
That season became the catalyst for rebuilding my identity, my standards, and my future.
The defining moment…
Then one day, the defining moment happened. This was the moment that I now see as the day that changed my entire life. I was standing in my kitchen, shaking and crying. My husband had just flipped our wooden kitchen table over across the room. He was yelling and screaming at me, completely enraged. He started walking toward me as I begin to walk backwards into the corner slowly. At 6 feet tall, 190lbs, his stature towered over mine. I was terrified.
This wasn't the first time he had become furious like this. I had endured his explosive and extreme personality changes before, but this time was different. This was the first time that I actually thought that he was going to hit me. All of this started because I didn't agree with him, over something trivial. He didn't hit me, after yelling slurs at me for a time, his flame seemed to fizzle. And he eventually calmed down. It was a bizarre cycle of behavior that I had seen on and off over over the years that we had been together.
It had become my "normal"- and for a long time, it was my secret because I was ashamed that I had a husband that couldn't control his temper. I was ashamed because I knew I was betraying myself every time that I accepted his inappropriate behavior, his subsequent apology, and his excuses. All I kept thinking to myself was: "How did I allow my life to end up like this?! How did I end up at 35 years old, supporting this man, giving my life over to him and now being scared? Why am I putting up with this? Are my vows more important than my own sense of self-worth, more important than my own peace of mind and safety!?!" It was the first wake up call that told me that I WAS NOT FREE.
On that day, my shame turned to fear, fear turned to anguish, anguish turned to anger, and anger pushed me to make the decision that my safety and dignity could no longer be compromised. I knew something had to change. I knew that I couldn't walk on eggshells in my own house anymore. A small voice inside of me said, "Tiffiny - you did this; you created this mess. And just like you created it, you can UNCREATE it!" For the first time in a long time, a glimmer of hope for a better life seeped into my heart. Even then, it took months for me to build the courage to tell him it was over!
My transition into freedom (and how The Freedom Code™ was born)
So I built a framework
I kept going
Not based on theory. Based on what actually works.
I started applying the same principles that helped me rebuild my life:
Clarity. Boundaries. Identity. Strategy. Courage. Community.
And as I coached more clients, I kept seeing the same pattern:
When high-performing professionals stopped operating on guilt, pressure, and people-pleasing, and started operating on purpose, alignment, and intentional leadership…
They didn’t just feel better.
They:
made more money
became more confident
set stronger boundaries
gained visibility and respect
spoke up without overthinking
stopped carrying everything alone
and finally felt in control of their career again
It was like they were tapping into a new internal code.
So I turned it into the system I now teach and speak on:
The Freedom Code™
A framework to help high-achieving professionals create more money, impact, and control, without burnout.
Eventually, I stepped into bodybuilding competitions and experienced a version of myself that felt powerful, disciplined, and alive again. I also started teaching fitness classes to help others experience the joy of fitness.
On the outside, I looked like a woman who had it all together.
But privately?
I was still living in a place where I didn’t feel safe… stable… or free. I was in a scary, failing marriage and was doing everything I could to not give up.
Once we got divorced, the real work began. After I sold our house, I was laid off my corporate job and ventured full-time into my own fitness business. I had to rediscover what brought me joy, who I was as a woman, and what legacy I wanted to leave in this world. I had to rebuild my entire life.
While I loved helping people transform physically, I knew my purpose was bigger.
I was drawn to the deeper transformation:
Helping high-achieving people stop living in survival mode, especially the ones who looked “fine,” but were secretly overwhelmed, over-functioning, and running on fumes.
So I made another bold pivot.
I got crystal clear on the life I wanted:
I wanted to make more money
I wanted to enjoy my life now
I wanted to create impact
And I wanted success without living in constant pressure and exhaustion
That clarity led me into technology sales. It was fast-paced, challenging, exciting, and full of opportunity. And I thrived.
Using my skills in communication, strategy, and negotiation, I:
Got promoted 3 consecutive years in a row
Generated and closed $400,000 in new business revenue in just 3 months
Led high-impact deals from discovery to close
Became known for turning complex challenges into clear, measurable ROI
I was performing at a high level…and burnout still tried to claim me.
That’s when I learned something most high achievers don’t realize until they’re already exhausted:
More success without boundaries doesn’t create freedom. It creates a better-looking cage.
If you’re wondering whether I can help you…
This is for you if:
✅ You’re the “dependable one” who secretly feels resentful and overwhelmed
✅ You overthink everything you say in meetings and hold back your real voice
✅ You struggle to say no without guilt
✅ You’re respected, but not fully seen or valued
✅ You’re tired of success costing you your peace
✅ You want to lead with calm confidence, not anxious pressure
✅ You want more income and impact, but you refuse to sacrifice your health and joy to get it
You don’t need to work harder.
You need a new way to lead.
And you don’t have to earn rest by burning yourself out first.
You get to be ambitious and at peace.
You get to be powerful and protected.
You get to make more money and have a life.
If you’re ready to build a career that feels as good as it looks…
👉Click here to learn about The Freedom Code 1:1 Coaching Program
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